by I don’t know if he realizes that or not, and I’m sure it isn’t his plan, but I think it’s true nonetheless. I’ve said for a long time that life is too short to learn from only your own mistakes and decisions, and that’s a piece of it. I’ve also said for a long time that you can’t choose you can’t choose what the universe throws in front of you, only how you react to it, and that’s a piece of things, too. The life he’s led has not always been easy one, and in some ways he’s paid the price that physically, and some ways mentally or emotionally.…